第九十四章成熟的女人(1/7)

“是的，我说的是心里话！”我由衷地说着。
                                                                                                                                                                “嘻嘻……哥，我好开心哦……”海珠笑起来：“哥，你再说说你对成熟女人的理解和看法，我好好听听，好有个方向！”
                                                                                                                                                                我说：“我自己都不成熟，我说不出来！”
                                                                                                                                                                “哥——不嘛，你说啊，我要你说呢，我要听！”海珠开始撒娇：“你随便说啊，想到什么就说什么，我就是要听嘛——好哥哥，说啊！”
                                                                                                                                                                我沉吟了一下，说：“我觉得吧，这个成熟的女人，首先一定是会善解人意，也就是说善良、温柔、具有同情心和正义感，能够在人群中感受爱，接受爱，也能给予他人爱，能接纳自己，也使别人接受自己。”
                                                                                                                                                                “嗯……”
                                                                                                                                                                我又想了下，说：“还有，成熟的女人必定知书达礼，能适度表达和控制自己的情绪，不在大庭广众下失态。她是一个好听众，可以敏锐地感受对方的情绪，体察对方的苦恼。她有雅量赞美别人，同时也能宽容别人的缺点，喜不狂，忧不绝，胜不骄，败不馁，谦而不卑。”
                                                                                                                                                                “嗯嗯……还有呢？”
                                                                                                                                                                “没了！”我说。
                                                                                                                                                                “不行，还得有，哥——继续说！”阿珠说。
                                                                                                     

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