第三百五十八章每周一次(5/7)

                                                                                             “一开始是海珠放弃了，冬儿回来了，可是，后来，是冬儿放弃了，海珠回来了。”我一会说：“我其实有些不明白这放弃和得到之间到底是一种怎样的心态和关系。”
                                                                                                                                                                我说这话的目的是想缓和一下我和秋桐之间的气氛。
                                                                                                                                                                秋桐沉思了一会：“很喜欢这样一幅对联：得失失得，何必患得患失；舍得得舍，不妨不舍不得。也许人生的过程就是一个不断放弃，又不断得到的过程。人生是这样，爱情亦然，我经常在想这样一个问题，在爱情中，是不是关键是要学会放弃？”
                                                                                                                                                                “为什么这样说？”我扭头看着秋桐。
                                                                                                                                                                “因为……”秋桐顿了下，看着我：“因为放弃，也是人生和爱情的一种选择。”
                                                                                                                                                                放弃也是一种选择！
                                                                                                                                                                听着秋桐的话，我的心一震。
                                                                                                                                                                想起曾经看过的一段话：许多的事情，总是在经历过以后才会懂得。一如感情，痛过了，才会懂得如何保护自己；傻过了，才会懂得适时地坚持与放弃，在得到与失去中我们慢慢地认识自己。
                                                                                                                                                                既然默默相守已失去意义，莫不如立即斩断心中那情思屡屡，放弃你所珍爱的，期待的，重新选择。其实，生活并不需要这么些无谓的执着，没有什么就真的不能割舍。学会放弃，生活会更容易。
                                                                                                                                   

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